It only took me four kids to realize that my kids would be better off if I gave myself the same time and attention I give them.
Of course, that's never actually going to happen. There are always piles of laundry to fold and mounds of dishes to wash.
And I will always give them their dinner first before I feed myself.
It's just programmed into my brain.
But I've gotten a lot better about letting certain things go, things that won't make a huge difference to their health, well-being, and happiness, but will make my life a little easier and more enjoyable.
You'll find no shortage of parenting books that will tell you how to best raise your kids -- the Tiger Moms, French Moms, Helicopter Moms. But here are my Survivor Mom tips for how to just make it through your days with a bit more sanity in tact.
This is my favorite show I've done so far. Thanks to my awesome guests Nellie and Jen Singer.
Great show. I completely agree on having a network of friends n family for help. These ideas help me with a 4 and 2 yo.
Routine. Whatever works for your family and schedule but have a "somewhat" consistent schedule. My kids behave better and are less fussy when they know what to expect.
Have little treats sprinkled throughout the week. For us, that means going to the library or park or the mall play area. It's burns off some of that energy and kids love the excitement of fun time ahead. There are tons of free activities, parks and local newspapers often list them in their Friday editions.
Check out your local library for free or discounted passes to local museums and concerts throughout the year.
Posted by: Sabz | April 23, 2012 at 01:09 AM